Quit Twitter before you’re hard, quit Instagram before you’re soft

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It took New York a decade to turn me. Friends in the city said it would make me a bit tougher, a bit gruffer and a bit harder, but I didn’t believe them. But it has, and I should leave. I’m a Midwest boy. We had a good run, but this is probably for the better.

There’s a saying that you should leave New York before it makes you too hard and leave Northern California before it makes you too soft. I believe the notion originates from Mary Schmich’s “Wear Sunscreen,” a commencement speech that became the unlikely spoken-word jam of the summer of 1999. I appreciate the advice, and I’d argue it applies to more than just the geography of where we live.

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